How to Tell if She’s an Escort Trying to Scam You

The only part of my job I disliked was reviewing so many shitty affair dating sites. Since there are only 3 legit sites, I was stuck dealing with many unpleasant experiences. I ran into some big-time scams. There were Private Investigators posing as attractive women, waiting to bust married men. And, even worse, there were tons of Escorts that used these hookup sites as a marketing tool.


I came across quite a few Escorts during my online dating journey. At first, I didn’t know how to spot them. They appeared to be just like any other female on the site. But once I encountered more than a handful of Escorts, I started to pick up on the signs they weren’t a regular site member. These are the obvious signs the woman you’re about to meet is going to make you pay to have sex with her…

She appears to have a phony name

She goes by the name “Jewels”. That’s a pretty good indication she’s hiding something. Another possible indication is if her name is something like “Katie Smith”. Sure, it’s possible that’s her real name, but an Escort may potentially come up with a cheesy, unoriginal name to use.

Married woman that’s afraid of getting caught

Married woman that’s afraid of getting caught

She refuses to give any personal information

Sure, it’s possible she’s a married woman that’s afraid of getting caught. But you should never hookup with anyone that isn’t willing to give out their personal information. It’s a fair tradeoff – you tell her who you are and she tells you who she is. That way you both have an equal amount to lose if you were to get caught. Escorts won’t give out their personal information.

She’s willing to meet you at her hous

A married woman wouldn’t ever allow another man to come over to her house. If she offers to meet you at her house, chances are she’s an Escort. Don’t show up because you’re going to have to pay for the fun.

She offers to meet you at her house

She offers to meet you at her house

She tells you to “bring some money”

You may be thinking that “bring some money” means you’re going to have to pay for her drinks and hotel. That’s probably not the case. She is talking about paying to get down her pants. The real women you meet won’t tell you that you have to pay for everything on the first date. It’s implied.

She doesn’t care what you can do for her

Affairs are a 2-way street. You please her, she pleases you. That’s how it works. No woman would cheat on their husband if they didn’t care to be pleased. What would be the point? An Escort is in it to make money. She wants you to get your rocks off and doesn’t particularly care about if you can please her. Her pleasure comes from the money her clients pay her. So if, in your discussions, she doesn’t mention a damn thing about what she wants you to do to her, she’s an Escort.

Affairs are a 2-way street

Affairs are a 2-way street