Meeting Women Online: When All Else Fails, Try, Try Again

If you’re failing to meet women online, you’re doing something wrong. It’s really quite easy to get laid if you’re taking our advice. We know this because this is advice that’s worked for us (just normal guys) and for many others. Those that don’t follow our advice, fail to get laid. So let’s go through some possibilities of what you might be doing wrong. Even if you have read through our affair dating guide, there could be a mistake you didn’t even realize you’re making.


Not signing up for the right dating site(s)

AshleyMadison.com, AffairsClub.com, and MarriedDateLink.com are the only affair dating sites you should spend a penny on. The other 300 or so sites are a complete joke. You will run into major problems when signing up for the other sites. If you only get scammed out of your money, consider yourself lucky. At worst, there will be a Private Investigator that shows up to meet you. He’ll rat you out to your wife, or force you to pay him money. That’s how they earn a living. They pose as beautiful women on these types of sites and blackmail men once they catch them in the act. The 3 sites we recommend are free from Private Investigators.

 Affair dating sites

Affair dating sites

Creating a shitty profile

Your online dating profile says a lot about who you are. If you don’t put in the time to create a killer profile, you won’t get laid. Women will have no reason to contact you. The profile should be interesting to read and have a positive tone. Are you whining about how your wife won’t put out? Does your profile display a lack of confidence? If so, there’s your problem.

Sending cheesy, unoriginal messages

The first message you send to a woman is crucial. If you don’t catch her interest right away, she’ll put you on ignore and won’t respond. Attractive women receive dozens of emails everyday from horny men. Most of them are never responded to because the messages are lame. Your message should have a catchy heading with a smooth introduction. “Hi there, my name is Steve” will be deleted in a heartbeat. She won’t even bother reading the rest of the email. BORING!

The first message you send to a woman is crucial

The first message you send to a woman is crucial

You screw things up once you meet her

Maybe your online game isn’t the problem. Perhaps you just suck at impressing a woman offline. My guess is you’re trying too hard. Here’s the thing – the women that you meet online have already decided they want to fuck you if they agree to meet offline. Basically, all you have to do is not fuck up. You don’t have to try hard to get her into bed. She already wants you to get her into bed. Just take her out for a couple of drinks, be friendly, and then ask her to come back to your hotel. Don’t make it more complicated than it should be.

 She already wants you to get her into bed

She already wants you to get her into bed

 

Having an Affair or Leaving Your Wife – It’s a Tough Decision

I have a wife, 2 young children, and a bad sex life at home. You’re probably in the same boat. Other than the sex, my wife is a cool chick and I have a lot of fun hanging out with her. I have no intention of jeopardizing my marriage. But I will be honest, there have been times where I’ve thought about leaving her only because the sex just isn’t any good.


Instead of leaving my wife, I decided to go out and have an affair. Had I left my wife for another woman, here are the problems I would have run into…

  • Potentially harming my children’s growth (studies suggest kids that grow up in a 1-parent home are more likely to become violent and angry)
  • Divorce proceedings are expensive (I’m not rich, so money was definitely a factor)
  • I’m likely to end up losing custody of the kids, which I don’t want to happen (let’s face it – women are given preference by a judge)
  • My wife is fun to be around, outside the bedroom, and it’s possible I will never meet someone that has as much in common as her

     Have an affair

    Have an affair

So, as you can tell, going through a divorce was probably not the best idea for me. But there was no way I was going to get by without having the sex life I always wanted. So I was in a bad spot. Trust me, I didn’t want to cheat on my wife. I do love her, but we have sex maybe once a week and it’s boring sex. A man needs his booty

Perhaps you find yourself in a similar situation right now. The problems associated with getting a divorce may cause great harm to you. You could end up losing out on a lot if you leave your wife. So what should you do?

Having the sex life

Having the sex life

Have an Affair!

Don’t sit around wishing you were getting laid. Actually go out and get laid. It’s simple. Just read through the affair dating guide on our site and you’ll learn the following…

Life is short. Before you know it, life will pass you by. You want good sex and you deserve good sex. Take my advice – have an affair while keeping your marriage in tact. What she doesn’t know can’t hurt her, right? So don’t waste anymore time. Quit jerking off to porn. Sign-up for one of the affair dating sites we recommend and have the sex life you’ve always dreamed of.

 

The Story of a Man that Lost Everything All Because He Didn’t Take My Advice and Hookup With a Married Woman

A former co-worker of mine came to me about 6 months ago asking for some advice. He told me that his sex life sucked and he was considering going out to meet someone to have an affair with. I told him about AshleyMadison.com and advised him to tryout that site. Before signing up, I gave him some pointers. The very last thing I told him was, under any circumstances, to not get involved with a single woman. I stressed that he should only sleep with married women. If you’ve read any of my previous articles, you know why.

He didn’t listen to a fucking word I said…

After signing up for AshleyMadison, he found an incredibly gorgeous woman. He sent me pictures of her and I told him that he absolutely had to hit it. Of course, I didn’t know she was single. I just assumed she was married. A few days later, he met up with her for drinks and then fucked her. I was so proud of him. I was even proud of myself for giving some advice that led to my friend getting laid. That was until he told me she was single.

Dude, why didn’t you listen to me? I told you not to mess with a single chick”. To which he replied, “don’t worry, she’s cool”.

Drinks and then fucked her

Drinks and then fucked her

I think you know where this story is going…

He had some great sex and it went on for about 3-4 weeks. He kept telling me how I was wrong and that this girl understood he was married and that there would be no emotional relationship. It was strictly physical to both of them…until it wasn’t. One evening after they had sex, she brought up the idea of him leaving his wife for her. He told her that couldn’t happen. He loves his wife and has 2 young children with her. So he immediately shot down the idea.

 Some great sex

Some great sex

About a week later, I received a call from him. This was his exact quote…

That fucking dumb bitch just called my wife and now I’m fucked”, he said emphatically. He was pissed off so I wasn’t going to escalate the anger by telling him “I told you so”. I suggested he deny it to his wife and discredit her. But it was too late. By the time he called me, his wife had taken the kids and her things over to her parents house.

He lost everything. He lost his wife. He lost custody of his kids. He even lost the house in divorce proceedings. Basically, he was fucked, but not in a good way. Let this story be a lesson to you. When I say to avoid dating a single girl – even if she’s a perfect 10 – listen to what I have to say, or you’ll end up like my friend.

 Avoid dating a single girl

Avoid dating a single girl

What Women on Affair Dating Sites Look for in a Man

I contacted a bunch of different types of women on AshleyMadison.com to ask them questions about what they are looking for in a man. I was fortunate enough to convince 6 of them to answer my questions. Their responses may surprise you a bit. Some of the qualities they look for in a hookup are probably different than what you may have expected. All 6 of the women were married, in their late 20’s to mid 30’s, attractive, and have had sex with at least one man they met on AshleyMadison.com. Here is a list of the questions I asked…

  • How important is physical attraction and does personality even matter?
  • What other qualities do you look for in a man?
  • Who should pay for the expenses associated with the affair?

On the importance of looks versus personality…

All 6 women admitted that looks do matter to an extent. But it was a bit surprising when they all stated that looks weren’t all that important. I can understand looks not mattering a lot in a committed, emotional relationship, but it was strange hearing from attractive women on a hookup site that looks were still less important than personality. However, the type of personality they are looking for is different than what you would find on a relationship-based dating site.

Attractive women on a hookup

Attractive women on a hookup

They all wanted a man with a strong, confident, dominant personality. They don’t want to hookup with a wimpy, unconfident puss. They don’t care if you’re into sports, movies, traveling, etc. They just want to know that you have your shit together and are into pleasing a woman as much as you are into being pleased. That’s understandable. After all, this is a 2-way relationship.

On the other qualities they’re looking for…

The #1 additional quality these women are looking for is availability. A few of them had mentioned they met guys that were never available to hookup. They want a man that will be able to give it up when they need it. I mentioned that sometimes married men have to cancel plans, and they agreed, but said as long as it’s not a regular occurrence.

Other qualities they look for is good hygiene, well groomed, and a man that smells nice. Wearing nice cologne, being clean shaven or having trimmed facial hair, and wearing nice clothes is a major turn-on to them.

A few of them had mentioned they met guys that were never available to hookup

A few of them had mentioned they met guys that were never available to hookup

On who should pay for the affair…

All 6 women agreed that the man should pay for everything – including drinks – on the first night. But they all agreed that the woman should occasionally cover the expenses to be fair to the man. They all understood that it’s difficult for a man to continually pay for hotel expenses and hide it from their spouse. Which is why they agreed the woman should help pay at times.

On the first night

On the first night

 

 

Top 4 Most Common Mistakes Men Make When Having an Affair

Knowing the costly mistakes men make is equally as important as learning the affair strategies I teach. Always be careful to avoid making any of these common mistakes…

Using a bank card to fund the affair

Every affair comes with a price tag. Most hookups will occur at a hotel and you have to pay for the monthly membership fees for the affair dating sites. A careless man will use his bank card. This is a terrible idea. Men are caught cheating all the time because of this mistake. Get yourself a prepaid debit card. The fees and risk are minimal. She’ll never be able to trace it. Don’t load the card with too much at a time or the missing funds in your bank account will look suspicious. Load just enough to cover the necessary expenses at that time.

Pay for the monthly membership fees for the affair dating sites

Pay for the monthly membership fees for the affair dating sites

Acting suspicious

You told your wife you’re going out with your boss for drinks. When you got home, you had a different excuse for where you went. Keep it together. Always remember where you told your wife you were headed. Be consistent. If you think your wife may be suspecting something, tell your booty call you can’t meet up for a while. Your wife will be paying extra close attention, so just take a break.

Hooking up with a single woman

The mentality of married and single women on fling sites are completely different. A married woman couldn’t give a shit about the emotional side of the relationship. They only want your cock. And they have just as much to lose as you, so they understand your need for a discreet relationship. A single woman has nothing to lose and will often become easily attached. She doesn’t have a husband back home. If she becomes emotionally attached, you’re in deep shit. She’ll become jealous and don’t think for one second she won’t tattle tail on you to your wife. Stick to sleeping with married women exclusively

Hooking up with a single woman

Hooking up with a single woman

Dating unattractive women

Let’s be honest here – us men are very visual. Sex with an unattractive woman just isn’t that much fun. Many of us are married to physically unattractive women so the sex life sucks. So why go out and hookup with ugly women? Sure, that makes me seem superficial. But, hey, I like to bang hot babes. That’s what I do. It seems pointless to me to go out and hookup with average or below average women. Bang the hotties and you’ll have that sex life you’ve always wanted.

Sex with an unattractive woman

Sex with an unattractive woman